Join us in reconnecting humanity.
We all know that we need to put our phones down and pay attention to the person in front of us! That’s why we created Over Coffee® – to help bridge ourselves back into a connected world.
Tired of surface talk?
This listening game is designed to ignite engaging and meaningful conversations in any social setting.
Challenge yourself to listen and respond with intriguing follow-up questions.
Go beyond casual social settings and foster connections with family, colleagues, neighbors, and even people we've known for years but only on the surface.
Go out on a limb and invite your neighbor, a friend of a friend, a stranger, or the person you see in the locker room every day to play and you might be surprised at how much you have in common!
Why Play Over Coffee?
Over Coffee provides a safe structure for diving into meaningful conversations
We all want to talk about these topics, and yet we don’t out of fear of judgment. This game allows you to share your thoughts safely – the structure promotes curiosity and listening and removes judgment.
How this game is different: Draw a verb
100 verb cards will challenge you to move beyond automatic questions and explore the uncharted territories of curiosity.
Other conversation games focus on a “question and answer” format, but Over Coffee pushes the conversation with novel questions created by you.
Every time you play the game, you’re experiencing something new!
Go beyond the weather
Develop empathy and understanding with others by discovering their motivations and feelings through shared stories.
140 topics prompt you with questions to explore around career, art, politics, mental health – even the meaning of life!
“Real conversations should be real.”
- Tina S., creator of FeelWise Emotional Awareness Tool
Listening is the objective
Over Coffee is a catalyst for deeper relationships with family, friends, coworkers, or even people you’ve just met.
“We’re so different, yet I can honestly say I love these people.”
-Traci F., former stranger met at a local coffee shop
The best way to get to know someone is when you have no agenda - like when you get together for coffee.
Created by Gena Scurry, self-proclaimed introvert
”As someone who so badly wants and craves knowing others beyond small talk, I’ve found when I have a meaningful conversation, where I risk myself and others ask follow up questions I feel known, listened to, connected and trust is built.
I actually want to hear your view on politics, end of life, divorce, marriage, and what the holidays are really like for you.
I need this. We need this. People need people.
That’s why I created Over Coffee® so we can exit this epidemic of small talk and instead start having meaningful conversations.”
– Gena Scurry